Others have labled it that though and it makes me wonder if I'm "letting him off the hook" or being ignorant. H insists they're just friends though and she's clear where he stands..for now.
Does the labeling really make a difference at this point?
So what would you do different if you called it "cheating?" Is that a deal breaker for you?
Remember one of the 37 rules..."believe nothing they say and only half of what they do."