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Sandi2:

Can you provide some specifics for me with regard to your statement below:

"Please don't make the mistake many men make, by getting your focus on the OM and the A. The root problem was there before the OM ever came on the scene. There are things you can do that will have a positive effect on the outcome of all this mess, if you hope to save the M".

Now that you know some deatil of my situation, what specific things can I do that will have a positive effect on the outcome of all this mess? Considering I'm living everyday with my W, whom I love with all my heart, while she is invloved in EA and PA with this OM, I'm looking for the best approach to save my M.

Please provide your insight here with specific methods, tactics and approach so I don't do any more harm to this marriage!

Thanks,

You wisdom is appreciated!

DoubleDown