NLW, I think you would be best to get completely free of him, debt or no debt. He is dangerous. He has been showing you his true colors of a long time now, protect yourself. He's deceitful and manipulating, impulsive, irritable and/or aggressive, consistently irresponsible, and unconcerned and not remorseful for hurting or stealing.

Many people may be one or 2 of things situationally, he's the whole package, the real deal.

Stop trying to figure him out and get away from him.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss