This morning we were talking about one of the parents at our daughters that has a maid. She joking said that the husband is probably sleeping with her. I responded back by jokingly saying that maybe we should get a maid then. She then said that's okay as look as you comfort me and take care of me. I asked her what she meant by comfort and she said you know, go on dates, etc. I responded by telling her "who said I wanted to go on a date with you" She replied by saying "that's okay - I can get a date somewhere else" grrrrh. I probably should not have said that but I was trying to play around and give the impression that I was not needy. I later text her wishing her a good day and telling her that if she hasn't noticed, I am still hot over heels for her (I know - pursuing - I should not have said that but luckily I think she just ignored it). This is getting harder since I know there is an OM. Grrhh.....