Yes, I try to dress up a little when we meet for dinner on Sundays. This week, as I was leaving she hugged me and asked "Can we keep having dinner on Sundays". I said yes, when possible (we both sometimes work on Sunday). Trying to leave her alone, yet be very positive and upbeat anytime we meet. I've noticed that she stopped wearing her wedding rings, I made it a point to let her see me wearing mine but no talk about it.

Just trying to practice a non-obsessive, positive outlook when I am around her, being very respectful of her "space" and offering to help if she needs help with anything (taking dogs to vet, moving a bed from our house to her rent house) without being asked.

So far, contact has been limited. Waiting for a chance to talk about "us" but not being the one to bring it up.


Lost.....just simply lost