I can relate with your struggles StungBT. Our time lines are similar. After 9 months of separation, working so hard to improve yourself with no sign of the spouse wanting to reconcile is a tough pill to swallow. The loneliness is the hardest part.
How long do you wait before pursuing another companion? Every situation on this board is different just like the personalities of the spouse that left.
Continue to become the best person you can be and deep down you know you did everything you could to save the marriage. Dont give up! I should really listen to my own advise
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.
