I think it's time for you to hammer down. I'd print out the activities go to your lawyer and. He is being an ass! Go get whats yours, your d has already spoken about how she feels.

I'm not the one who left and I have paid out over 60k, not counting CS (I'm not rich at all just in a lot of debt now). This of course does not include the money my wife hid before she left... If I can swallow that hit and not be pissy about it then he should be able to man up and pay his portion.

You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.