Sorry to hear what you are going through K, but this is typical behaviour from the WAS. I agree that you shouldn't contact him again until he contacts you. He will contact you eventually because he will want to see the boys. Act as if nothing is wrong when he does contact you. Play it cool and don't rise to his bait. Don't have a go at him, just treat him as if he was a friendly neighbour.
You can never tell that your M is completely over or not, it's too soon.
Take care of yourself and your boys smile Speak soon smile

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T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!