DB seemingly backfired w/ my H???

[Mimi00]

Not much to add right now, Mimi....other than I hope you are working on expressing his love language.

Hi SP. I don't really know how I can express his love languages from a distance with out it coming of as pursuing??? Physical Touch I can't do from where I am, but words of affirmation---we don't talk often, when we do he talks about work... I say how smart he is when I can, but that's really it. Do you have any suggestions?


I was killing time on instagram and a new picture posted today by H popped up. I already assumed he posts all these great pictures of "wonderland" on purpose in the attempt to get someone to visit him. Well it seems to have worked, a woman from his home town, who I know he recently started talking to by phone(I snooped a few times last month, don't judge me ), commented on how beautiful it looked, and that she's ready to visit.

That hurts.
I don't know how those who are dealing with affairs do it. Must take a very strong person to continue to fight.
Right now I'd like to draw up some papers myself and just be done with everything.
Why continue to hold someone in your heart who doesn't want you anymore? That's how I feel right now.