I used to used up my monthly pay for household bills. After the bomb, i just pay for mortgage and my children's school fees.

W pays for everything else which is a huge amount too. She works and her monthly income is roughly 2.5 to 3 times mine. She can take care of herself and the kids without me.


She called my best friend the other day. She wanted to help us out on our start-up but did not mentioned anything to me. She asked my friend why was i moody at home. I kept my distance and did not initiate any talks with W unless about the kids and she translated it differently. She's the one who looks unhappy all the time and she's gaining weight. Can't seem to shake off the gain with all the exercises and diets she's undergoing.


M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet