Sorry you are here tbolddids. I think you are doing really wwll already. Keep your responses on the texts short and positive. It is good you are still meeting up regularly, keeping them positive as well, good. Have you started to wear some good clothing, cologne etc to those meetings? Reember also to be the first to go.
Advise, start learning to validate, if you are not already doing it. Text reply can be held back for a few hours, unless a necessary reply is needed. Don't discuss what you have been up to, apart from "doing things to help improve myself".


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.