So true those words are Cadet. I can honestly say I have no idea what my W is doing or not doing with regards to the sitch. But after 10 months I am finally getting and coming to grips with "there are no guarantees that she will come back and the standard advice is to live "as if" she is not." It takes time to get there, but once you do, that is when the best chance at life happens, whatever that may be.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
