sthelen, good to hear you are moving ahead. Your H does sound very confused, which in a way is good. Time hopefully will make him see the light a lot better. I love picking up different people's lines they say. "Work on yourself. The couples that are really meant to be together will end up together. They won't be able to stay apart no matter how hard they try." That was one of those lines that hit home. Love it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.