The Show Must Go On

[BrightFuture]

Wonka, thanks for the insights. Before, even when my H was upset with something in life, he would still be polite. Yes, sometimes he would say or do something rude, but he would apologize later. With the texts, I’m thinking he has time to process his feelings and not act on impulse.
You are right though, that I don’t know what he is up to and what kind of upsets he is having in his life. It is hard to do DBing long distance.

rH, thanks for stopping by. So, your H did the same thing, switching from the kind and polite to business like communication. It is good to know.

My H is looking for someone who has the qualities that he likes in me, minus the qualities he doesn’t like. Like my negativity (I fixed that one already), jealousy and mistrust in his social activities, you know, with the female friends. He wants a fun bar buddy, like “one of the boys” (his words to this Mexican girl he tried to have a R with), but at the same time independent, responsible, trustworthy, supportive, feminine, not too fat, not nagging, not judgmental, not jealous, secure enough in her mind and body so she would be OK with his playboy magazine... At the same time she would accept him the way he is – drinking every day, hanging out at the bars with questionable crowd, rarely complimenting her, trying to do the single guy activities, requiring the toothpaste being squeezed out in certain way… Oh, just read all these and now thinking “Why do I want him?”

I always had lots of compliments from other guys and people in general. But, it seems that some of these compliments annoyed him sometimes. I think it is because his own insecurities. He never showed it though. I think this man lost his pride, and now is searching for something easy and instantly rewarding. He might be disappointed though.