"It was probably wrong on my part to solicit an apology from someone who isn't genuinely sorry. I will leave it to you to grapple with those demons. I don't want those negative feelings to be part of my life anymore. I've said what I needed to, I know that I have consistently done the right thing, and I forgive you."
Actually this doesn't mirror my thoughts because what you wrote it still says "I'm right and you're wrong". That's not what forgiveness is about. It's understanding that while you don't necessarily agree on a person's actions, you agree that they have THE RIGHT to those actions.
Your response sounded like you were telling your W how much better you are than her. And that is not part of the process.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
