I understand fully how quickly these changes can happen. I literally changed overnight when I realised how serious this was. Your W probably will keep complaining about what you do, even if it is a 180. I think they continue to want you to stay the same, that way it makes it easier on them to be in the right about the sep. When they now complain, you know they are seeing and acknowledging what you are doing. And if those things are the right things, then continue.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
