Found out she was with possible EA/OM at a get together for her on her bithday night. I lost it and told her how much it hurt to not be part of her birthday and asked if we could do marriage therapy. She said that she would talk to her IC @ the next appointment, what ever that means.

I need to work on 4Cs and detachment. Any advice other than keep reading?


Me-41 W-41
M-20y
2 teen sons 1 preteen son
BD/ilybinilwy 6/8/13
I moved out 7/24/13