Agree with ttd180 about the friend talk. The anniversary, I would say that since you are still going out for dinner etc, then I would plan a nice dinner together only. I don't think a night away is the best thing at this stage. Others may disagree. But in saying that, you need to see how things go over the next few weeks. What about simply asking her opinion on what she would like to do? I think you could continue to still make plans with her mum. It is still her birthday and you still love her, so why not? Just don't expect anything in return for doing it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
