I think I remember reading somewhere back in time, that the 180 of doing chores (ironing, washing clothes/dishes, etc) means nothing to the spouse. To them it is an inconvenience, and you are getting in their way. Focus on helping with the drying, hanging up clothes with the spouse instead. Focus on the big issues, not so much the small issues. Continue to be active in your daughter's life, stop worrying so much about the money (my big issue) and continue to be positive and upbeat. My two cents worth.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
