You are most welcome to join in. I don't think my sitch sounds promising, but again who knows anything, and others seeing it may say differently. While the friend tells me a few important things, I still have the feeling that a lot isn't mentioned either. Both my boys don't live with either of us at the moment. The oldest had to move out nearly 3 years ago when he started University and therefore couldn't come to the country when we had to. The youngest moved out at the end of last year, when the BD hit, but also because he finished his secondary school and now has a job. He is living with the SIL back in the city. Hopefully when I go back the youngest will move in with me. Again I cannot guarantee that, as he probably saw me at the worst I was (depression etc) and I also feel the SIL has been a big source of importation/misinformation to him. Yes it is all trial and error, but I have to be very real here, most of it has been error. I have seen very little positives, have very little communication with the W and will be moving away nearly 600 miles at the end of the year. On the good side, she hasn't got OM, still struggling emotionally and next year I will be with all our family members, she will be with her EA friend and that's it. Sorry to hijack 2old.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
