I know that if I confront her it will be over - so confrontation is a no go at this point.
I agree.
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Maybe this is what I needed to find out in order to detach, get cold and hearten my hard while somehow trying to DB(what a paradox).
I doubt learning they are having an A will automatically do all those things. From what I've read, the LBS has to work on detaching, and as for being cold, etc., you may be shocked to discover that you aren't for any long periods of time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
