2old, I thought I would add a couple of things about my WAW. We are now 10 months separated. When my W walked away, she showed everyone she was very strong, no emotional outbursts, no discussing the sitch, nothing. Now I have heard about 1 month ago that she is starting to have emotional issues, has visited a doctor to get a referral to a psychologist. So in answer to your question, yes, I believe they do start to come out of the fog. I think they do start to see life a bit more real than at BD. I think they start to see the grass isn't always greener on the other side. One of the things you added in your last topic, was knowing the W really well and seeing such a big difference in them. I am the same, my W focused on the day rather than the future, and I think this is starting to catch up with her. She is starting to see the future (mindreading coming up) and I don't think she likes it. The W also has never been involved in the finance side of our marriage, again now that she is going to the solicitor and wanting assets split, I think she is starting to see the difficult side of the finances. Anyway continue with what you are doing 2old.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
