Reuben, I want to let you know that you are not alone in this and I have had the exact same problems as you with being around my GF and her new friends in social events, and Im the one that gets neglected. I wish I had an answer for us to solve this problem. I do feel that this is only temporary though and we must remember this!
After some time, if we can keep a staright face, they will want to pay more attention to us than these friends of theirs. Keep the faith, and I think that letter isnt too bad. It is not pushy at all and I wish you luck in your situation. Dont quit now, you are so close!!
Anything worth having is worth working HARD for!
Making a New Move