Specialk, H always made references to our future, or we will do this etc. or my favourite "We could have a place and be room mates..." sheesh.
Alcohol fueled affection is my specialty..H and I have gotten into tonnes of ahem...trouble. So I made that a boundary.
It is a good sign that P still touches you. I make an effort to touch H in passing etc. and he will sometimes touch me on the back or arm as he passes. We went to a concert last week and were constantly touching or holding on to each other. His LL is touch for sure, so I try to validate it.
I like your answer about the therapist asking if you guys were together. I even like your answer. I think it says "No" with conviction, but you took away the edge with the "unless I don't know it" part.
