I had my final session with my therapist and she said that I am doing so well that there is no need for me to see her any more. Im grateful that she believes I will continue to improve and have developed the tools needed to cope with this marital breakup.

I am struggling to choose if I should start dating or not. I am now 9 months into my situation and W has shown no sign of wanting to get back together. Why is it that I feel that I need a woman in my life to feel complete? I get lonely even with my busy life.

The W is not as cold when I pick up the boys so it makes me more comfortable when i am there. I heard that she is on a dating site and that hurts knowing that she is looking for another guy.

Still having my good days and bad. Wondering if she is completely finished with me or that she just need more time and patients with a glimmer of hope for reconciliation.

Gracefully hanging in there!


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.