Still at Square One!!!

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I know what you mean!! Hope the DB coaching goes well for you, you must let me know what he/she says as our sitches are very alike. When my H first left me about 12 years ago, he started ringing me up daily. He still was with the OW and I didn't think anything of it as we didn't talk about anything in particular. After about a week or so of calling me, he admitted that he wanted to get back together. At first I didn't want to as I'd moved on with my life, but then I knew it was right to do for the sake of our family.
By your H ringing or texting daily, you are bound to feel like he wants something more. If it carries on, just act "as if". Don't tell him more than he needs to know, if he asks what you've been up to then just say not a lot.
It is very confusing I know. My H will spend time with us, then back off. I'm now going through no contact with him at all. I used to find an excuse to ring or text him but I don't anymore. In fact it annoys me when I've got to ring him, lol.
Will you go over to my thread and have a look at my sitch please. I've got labug on my thread at the moment telling me to let go and GAL. I thought I was GALing, I can't do anymore. I'm happy the way I am, I don't need to be hit by 2x4s every time I go online! I don't expect you to read right from the start, just the last few posts that I've made. You will also see how similar our sitches are Thanks