Mizjjd, your H is annoyed by your kind actions because he probably wants this “go above and beyond” directed towards him. And one of the things he wants is your complete “understanding” of his desire to keep OW around. I’ve read the story of the man who was in MLC and described his experience where he remembered that at some point in his MLC he wanted his wife, but also OW, and he could not understand why he could not have both. Later, when he came to his senses, he finally understood the absurdity of this. I think this blog was taken off line, it used to be called “Newmans Blog”.

Mizjjd, you are doing great job enforcing your boundaries regarding OW. I hope your H will wake up one day and realize how foolish he was.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state