Background, for you F, Ms. Wonka and OW moved in with Ms. Wonka's mother because, according to Ms. Wonka when we spoke on the phone for the first time back in Nov, 'she cannot be left alone.' Also I did a bit "research" on the Internet and found that OW has a full schedule teaching classes for this upcoming academic year.
So you can see why I said that I gathered they were still very much together.
I am done with this glacier cracking and am laying down my ice pick. Been at this crazymaking for 9 years. Enough is enough. It is now up to Ms. Wonka to do the work and she needs to jump hoops herself to win back my trust, my friendship, etc.
Meanwhile, I'm gonna focus more on GAL and see if I can fill up my own dance card with some 'new' friends to borrow a page from Kate's 'Winnie The Pooh' playbook.