Breakdown, I totally agree..that was my thought too. I can't do LMBT until I've shown effective DR/DB techniques and understood our different love languages (he's physical touch, words of admiration, and I'm quality time and gifts). So, for now I guess I continue and see where it takes me...
For the cheating thing, honestly, while it bothers me and feels disrespectful I don't know it's fair to call it cheating. If we didn't have D we could already be divorced in our state. Others have labled it that though and it makes me wonder if I'm "letting him off the hook" or being ignorant. H insists they're just friends though and she's clear where he stands..for now.
Me: 26 H: 28 T:8 M:5 D:2 BD:4/1/13 Separated 6/6/13 Filed separation 6/21/13 Waiting for D papers to be served, H says filed
