I'm in the process if making some changes on my appearance to make myself look much better then I use too couple of monthes ago.
Way to go K. I just did the same thing - I'd grown my hair long because H liked it that way so last week I went and had it cut short. H hates it, although it is a similar style to the way I wore my hair when we met and married, but everyone else loves it and even say it makes me look 10-15 lbs thinner. That's a real ego boost I'll tell you.
Do something for you. It'll make you feel better just knowing that you've done it for you not someone else.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks