Thanks Mimi for your post I'll have a look at the books you mentioned. A lot of them though you can't borrow from the library over here in the UK, you have to buy them I'm short of cash at the moment. I need to save up for my insurance for my beauty business. I'm going to have to write a list of these books so I don't forget to order them once I've got some spare cash. I wish I knew the reasons why my H left me as he didn't give me any, just gave me clues. He never once said he was unhappy in our marriage, he just left one day. I still won't be able to understand why the WAS is determined to split the family up. I hope that we all eventually find happiness with or without our spouses. It's a loooong road to recovery!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
I'll have a look at the books you mentioned. A lot of them though you can't borrow from the library over here in the UK, you have to buy them 
I'm short of cash at the moment. I need to save up for my insurance for my beauty business. I'm going to have to write a list of these books so I don't forget to order them once I've got some spare cash.