Im so happy things are headed in a positive direction for you two.

I can totally relate to what you said about not taking the marriage into account when making desicions in the past. I am definitely guilty of that.

Hope you have a great week!

me: 30 H:30
tgthr:7 m:4
no kids
5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012
long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012
official BD: July 2013
nothing filed
1/1/14 I dropped the rope