Good to hear from you Grizz! You are fortunate that she chooses to spend time with you. That is a good sign. She is telling you that she still needs some space from you so do you best to provide that.
Unfortunately she will be drawn to people that can empathize or relate to what she is going through. There is nothing you can do but let her do her thing and hopefully return to the married life.
Give her space, continue to improve you and be there for you kids!
H 37 WAW 32 S 4 (Autistic) S 2 Together 11 years Married 6 Bombshell Dec 1 2012 House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.