I must be interpreting LTH post differently. I took that she meant I should pull back and detach.
Again, I'm not saying I disagree with you. I've thought myself that a major shake up might be the answer to HOPEFULLY give her some perspective.
I believe that despite what she said the other night, that she would miss me... but I feel that wouldn't fix our underlying problem.
Originally Posted By: Accuray
I should have separated when I was where you are, did not, and have paid the price. I believe we would have been back together now with my W committed and happier than she is now. It would have been the quickest and best path and is not giving up
It's not my intention to rehash any bad memories or regret for you, but can you elaborate on why you thought it would have helped you in your sitch? Unless I missed it, your last thread just seamed to stop, then your sig line reads "piecing again" 9/12, what happened?
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing
