Patrick and Rachelle,

Thanks so much for the replies. Its good to have you both check in, you are both such good friends. I pray you both can be here soon.

We last night was a suprise. Earlier in the day while I was at church W texted me: Listening to Counting Crows luv - A. That is my favorite band and reminds her of me. Also you just don't here that played anywhere, so she must have played it on the juke box again.

After church I texted back: "I had a great time today luv u 2 - R Call me tonite. She didn't call, but I did text back when I went to bed "goodnite baby luv - r".

Well to my suprise I was awaken at 1:30 a.m. to my W coming home and getting into be with me and she spent the night again. I was totally not expecting it. We talked a bit and I asked how her night was. She said just ok kinda boring. She went out to 2 bars and saw a few friends. One in particular an old married man she knows. She said she talked with him about the sitch and she told me he said he was glad she was trying to work on the M.

This morning we had breakfast again which we made together. She also told me two wonderful things. First she thought we could go to her favorite hang out and watch the superbowl together. Second was "I wish I had all my stuff here. I think we should go over and get my clothes today." I asked all your stuff? and she said "yeah".

she is in the shower now as I write this, and I am in shock! There really wasn't any talk about the R or making up just "I want to go get my stuff". I played it calm and just smiled and said I would help her.

Also a bonus was while watching TV she asked to have me get her a blanket. I got one and "tucked her in" on the chair. We leaned together and she gave me a kiss better than we have had in a while. Not full of passion, but is getting better.

Things are really looking up, we have a long way to go, but I can see that we may actually be on the same path together.

God Bless You, Reuben Cautiously hopeful and keeping the Momentum