Am I kidding myself.

[reachingHigher]

DB coach is a good idea.

I got the package of 3 for the lower price. It's not like you have to use them all at once. I had months between each session. If you have a good handle on DBing already, it's more like the coach can identify what your particular sitch needs or what you want.

I can tell you now, Hopeful, there are still some days where I wish I hadn't waited, wished I had gone ahead and D'd. But most days aren't like that. Most days are very good in reconnection. And for tying together your whole life...your history...your children/grandchildren with this spouse, it's good to work things out.

Plus, you have to ask yourself, would you really be happy without them or always feel like something is missing?

I do know I am a better person today than I was before this started....

^ ^ ^ ^ This is a powerful statement! That's a great feeling!