I don't know whether the fog gets worse or better. I would say to your D that if she's concerned about your W then she needs to talk to her mum about it or someone else who is not emotionally involved. You need to explain to your D that what your W is doing now is no concern of yours as she is not with you anymore. I know that sounds harsh, but for the time being that is how you must think. If at a later stage your W's fog does lift then you can start to worry about her.


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!