The View from the Blanket VI

[bustingout]

I hear you Bug. Especially about doing things to people that were hurtful den though not intentional... It was me that was/is hurt.

I suppose I am just surprised that he is so agreeable to the boundaries. My first thought was/is that he wants this... He wants to live this divorced style life with the kids. He does not want to be a full time father. I know his actions have said this for ages - a part of me thought that deep down though he was struggling and that his kids were his one true source of joy in his life. But I guess it makes sense. He now has less responsibility with the boundaries. At least it will give the kids more stability and we / they won't be waiting around for him wondering when/if he is coming.