My new normal (she has moved out)

[Fartiltre]

Grizz,

I have only posted in your thread once and that was me asking a question but I have been following you and I have been very curious to hear from you again.

IMHO (and I am not a VET) you need to either pull back or go all in. By all-in I mean MC, Retro or something like that but then again you state that W is pulling back right now and therefore this is a big chance to take. You risk pushing her further away by doing this!

Therefore my suggestion would be to pull back a little and do what we all do: GAL, focus on you and the Ds and detach. This is what everybody is telling everybody and I know you get the drill and the idea.
IMO you have a good starting point for future R since your W is still somewhat attracted towards you – this attraction is what you need to work! You need to play your hand wisely now otherwise you will come out pursuing and push her away.

You need to think rationally about the future and then apply patience.
You need a path!

I will be praying for you and your family!

All the best !

F