Willbwell, it is a good idea to process your feelings first before deciding what to do with the e-mail. It is not stupid to be a bigger person. You don’t have to just go along, you need to decide what is good for you and your kids. And you CAN be brave. Hang in there.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state