GM, it is sad to hear about how things are going. About the apology, I think you got about what can be expected. In my case, my W had a 1-night stand, I found out about it and asked her to leave. A condition of her returning was an apology. She did and I accepted her back. I have two observations: first, she said she was sorry but now I wonder if she truly is, or as you say, maybe she is just sorry that she got caught? Second, she apologized, I took her back, and now we are living a "normal" life. Yet, I feel as if it is not enough. I wish she would apologize again and maybe again after that ... I guess what I'm saying is that it is hard for us to let go and forgive and forget.
