B, I totally get that. FWIW, I had a friend who was in the same boat. She felt the same way. Didn't give guys a chance to even talk to them (outside of business). That went on for a very long time. Then she met a guy that she is head over heals for. I remember telling her that if she meets the right guy, integrating or anything like that is not going to be a problem. She likes to punch me in the shoulder when I remind her of that smile

Thanks for sharing. And Wen/B/?, I'm sorry to hear it still hurts from time to time But I also feel it sometimes as well. It's been a long long time, and yet I still sometimes do. I suspect many of us do. It's cause we're not crazy enough to act like it never happened wink

Peace,
AJ

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"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."