TTD180, not sure they have brains there but some certainly spend more time thinking with their little head instead of the big one.

I'd love to know just what my H thinks he's gaining with an OW with her own baggage (Big D and S16), but then again maybe I don't.

All we can do is take it one day at a time, stay strong for our kids and work on ourselves.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks