I think I actually appreciate my wife dropping the bomb on me... Stay with me now. If it were not for her I would not have come to this board and met other people or bought a Harley. I would not be here getting help/advice and working on me being a happier person overall. I would have been stuck in a marriage that truly did not make me a happier person (it was comfortable not joyful). I would not have started working on a better relationship with my son or daughter
I don't have to stay with you, I AM with you on this. God saw what I needed to get rid of and gave me the opportunity to remove those things. My H and the BD were just instruments of that change.
Through that I'm understanding the peace that passeth all understanding.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss