How can you mend a broken heart?

[RosaLinda]

Thanks all of you for your support, Snodderly, Bright, DMR, Cadet, Mz. J, Magic. I am home, with my vision exactly the same after a bunch of tests. The ER doctor first thought the double vision is due to a partially detached retina. She said if that's what it is, it can cause blindness if it completely detaches, but can easily be repaired by an opthalmologist with a laser. But first she wanted to do a CT scan and MRI to make sure I don't have a brain tumor. The test results were good, and i was seen by a neurologist, who said I don't have double vision because the two images I see are vertical, one above the other, and "real" double vision images are side by side. What do I know, i see two! He said it is an eye problem not brain problem, most probably a detached retina or possibly glaucoma. That's what the ER doctor thought in the first place!! By this time it was after 8 pm and the opthalmologist wouldn't come so I'll see him tomorrow at his office. 

But I am home and fine! Thanks. Trees look the strangest, like they are crammed full of twice as many leaves! Driving in the car is nauseating!

I like the Munson book so far; her writing is entertaining and educational. She seems to have figured out all the things we are struggling with over night, the first night her H left after BD, like giving the MLCer space, the rewriting marital history, loving enough to let him go with love, and that her H really loved her even though he said he does not, it is himself he hates. 

Cadet I haven't gotten really far yet as it's hard for me to read. How long WAS his MLC? Do you like it so far J? Bright it was not free, a bit over $10 I think.