HI Linda... Hope you are ok! Sorry to hear about your eye issues.
I too need to break from here from time to time. I tend to obsess about my sitch and then everyone elses too. Then I get overwhelmed. Its a large load to carry.
Im glad that your H "offered" to take you... Its a caring guesture.
Take care, Magic
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)