Sometimes its necessary isn't it? For me I find too much of my own posting becomes wallowing a bit. I just need to hit "pause" and not-think-about-it-so-much.
Very sorry you are having troubles with your eye. I hope things turn around very soon for you.
I just downloaded L. Munson's book. It sounds like it offers good news and promise. Things much needed just now.
Take care
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.