Yeah Rick - I like being right. I'm so glad things are settling down now for you. Nice to hear you have someone in your life. Good for you!
The other day was busy & fun - BBQ & swim party, volunteer work then a night cap with friends & my wonderful other half. At around 10 PM I realized the date would have been my anniversary. It meant nothing to me. So nice to get to that point.
For the most part you are right Barb. Things are good but when I spend time with my daughter I get depressed. I miss being with her everyday. I miss seen her everyday. I hate what we did to her. Today I hate my ex. I don't usually hate people but I hate her. Hopefully it is just for today and it will go away.
I had a great time with my daughter today. Until I drove her home
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Went fishing with my neighbor today. He tells me he saw exw at the local Acme and that she looked awful and sad. That she didn't look right. I felt really sad. Wanted to go help her. I'm a natural fixer. But than I remember what she put our family through and felt angry. I'm no gonna lie but I fantasized about going back with her. But that's all it is fantasies cause I wouldn't. Just sharing
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Rick, have you ever heard of anyone on this board say that someone reported seeing their ex spouse and they looked great! Nah, people love to tell you how terrible your ex looks cuz they think you'll like to hear that. The obvious message is that without you the ex is lost, unhappy etc. Just take it with a grain of salt and move on with your happy life. I certainly understand the natural fixer thing, it's a hard habit to break.
