We probably all backslide from time to time. I know I certainly do.

SA is right - don't look for validation from your H. If you feel good, that's what is important right now.

Slow and steady, baby steps, whatever it takes.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks