Great post cbtdad. Also agree fully with you Not Quitting, everytime I feel like simply giving up and saying that's it, I came across something positive on the forum to make me say keep trying.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.